It is said: “A friend in need is a friend indeed”. Have you just broken up with your boyfriend/ girlfriend? Don’t worry, your bestie already knows how to cheer you up. Did you go a little bit wild at the office party last night? Be sure, that all the embarrassing moments have been downloaded on YouTube by your humble servant. But no matter what you do, you can be sure that your pal will always stand by your side. Did you know that there’s even National Best Friends Day which is celebrated on June 8th? Of course, it doesn’t mean that this is the only day in a calendar to say kind words to your mate.
“Have you ever seen the dawn? Not a dawn groggy with lack of sleep or hectic with mindless obligations and you about to rush off on an early adventure or business, but full of deep silence and absolute clarity of perception? A dawning which you truly observe, degree by degree. It is the most amazing moment of birth. And more than anything it can spur you to action. Have a burning day.”
Smiles can be deceiving too. A person with an evil heart can paste a sweet smile on their face and fool a lot of people easily. A depressed person can easily fake a smile to hide their from everyone and no one would know how much they are hurting. One has to make sure if the smile is genuine which isn’t difficult to notice because a real smile is always reflected in a person’s eyes. One smile can drive away all the hard feelings and that is why smiles should be protected. Smiles not only affect in positive mental and emotional health but also affect the physical outlook. A smiling person looks thousand times attractive. Just imagine an innocent child smiling, that smile can take away pain of so many others because it is so pure and infectious. People should always spread smiles around them because only that will make world a better place for everyone.
But we all have the opportunity to take what we have and make the best out of it. Instead of lamenting about our difficult situation we need to redirect our attention towards solutions on how we can make the best out of it. There is, unfortunately, no other choice. Have the courage to accept the way your circumstances are and then try your very best to make the best you can from it.
The message of Clement Stone is clear: have an ambitious goal and shoot for it. If you miss the goal, you’ll still have achieved something. The quote also indicates that even if things don’t go as planned they can still turn out to be a success. This means for us that we have to be willing to make adaptations as we go along. Without this flexibility we will focus too much of our attention on the fact that we did not reach the moon, while we have already landed on an amazing star.
I have a best friend as a husband, and he is my number one supporter. He's a family man, and he's always giving back to God. That is what makes him a beautiful man. We're not perfect by any means, but that makes us beautiful as well. We're not afraid to say we're not perfect. We have our disagreements, but that comes along with marriage. Tamera Mowry
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